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Things I’m asking. Things I’m sitting with. Things I don’t have answers to yet.


✝️ Faith & Meaning

I spent most of my life certain — certain of the supernatural, certain of life after death, certain of the framework I’d been given. Then I spent about five years in genuine agnosticism. I’m not sure I’m fully there anymore, but I’m not sure I’m back where I was either.

So: What do I actually believe? And perhaps more honestly — does it matter if I can’t be certain?

I’m also sitting with the parable of the Lost Coin. If God rejoices when the lost are found, does God grieve when they remain lost? What does divine grief look like — and what does it say about the nature of God?

👨‍👧‍👦 Parenting

I love my kids more than I know how to say. But I worry the world they’re growing up in is so different from the one I grew up in that we’re sometimes speaking different languages without realizing it.

How do I bridge that gap? How do I make sure they know — really know — how loved they are, even when I don’t always know how to show it in ways that land?

🇺🇸 Society

America feels like it’s at another crossroads — and not for the first time. I think about the civil rights era, the unrest of the ’90s, and now the mid-2020s, where the scope has expanded but the pattern feels familiar: a government deciding which people are worth less than others. The targets have shifted — immigrants, trans and nonbinary people — but the machinery feels the same.

How do we get out of these cycles? And what’s my responsibility within them?


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